Goal Setting Tips and Techniques

Every person in the world dedicates countless hours to thinking of their future and their present condition in life. Most of us wish that there was something that they could change in their life.

Whether it is their family life; their relationships or finances, friendships; everyone wants to change something. Goal setting is the first step to do that. Though, many of us are great at trying to set goals but most of us are practically inefficient of following these goals.

Think about it. How many times have you determined on a particular course of action and simply didn’t follow determined way of doing it? Quite often many of the individuals behave in this way.
Unable To Follow the Goals
Sometimes the toughest part of the accomplishing any goal is the setting of goals itself. The easiest way of looking at this is to think of each and every New Year. Actually it is the resolutions, which form the largest part of New Year’s celebrations but not the parties and the get-togethers.

We all like to attend and talk about New Years Eve parties; the resolutions for the New Year are the most common source of conversation.

The only trouble is that most of us set the same resolutions every year, and every year, we are unsuccessful to achieve these goals. After all, we would not make the same resolution every year, if we were successful in achieving those goals.

You need to know the fact about what is really holding you back. Goal setting and motivation go hand in hand. The goal is your journey and the motivation your fuel to get there.

You may have gallons and gallons of fuel, but no journey to go on. You may have many goals, but no fuel to get there. What can avoid you from going on that journey? There are many more things holding you back than you understand.

Goal Setting Techniques
• Make sure that your goals are your own and no one else’s
• Deciding what is important for you to accomplish in your life and making your options based on this knowledge
• Motivating yourself to attainment to ensure their accomplishment
• Building your self-confidence based on the measured attainment of goals
• Separating what is significant from what is unrelated so that your focus is in the right place

By setting goals you can:
• Improve your self-confidence
• Increase your motivation to achieve the most out of life
• Achieve more in your lifetime
• Plan to eliminate attitudes that hold you back and cause unhappiness
• Improve your overall performances in life
• Increase your pride and satisfaction in your achievements
Advantages of Goal Setting
• Concentrate and focus better
• Are happier and more satisfied with life
• Show more self-confidence
• Suffer less from stress and anxiety
• Perform better in all areas of life

Reward Yourself
When you have accomplished a goal, you have to take the time to enjoy the satisfaction of having done so. Absorb the implications of the goal accomplishment, and observe the growth you have made towards accomplishing other goals. You should reward yourself appropriately, if the goal was an important one.

Think of the goal like this, why would you prefer to ignore any achievements that you have made? In doing that, you are minimizing the importance of your achievement, which will induce you that it wasn’t that important in the first place.

Nishanth Reddy
http://www.articlesbase.com/self-help-articles/goal-setting-tips-and-techniques-58438.html

10 Responses to “Goal Setting Tips and Techniques”

  • Heather:

    What are good tips on debating?
    In my job I have to prove my point to get a goal set and accepted by the client, I have never been a pushy person, but I do know that I need to be good at proving a point. They have debating teams and I am sure they have techniques they use. If you know any, could you share those? Thanks

  • Kuku:

    be well preapred for anything
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  • shes just dreaming ♥:

    be confident.
    that’s for sure!

    do not have a blank repetitive tone
    try and change your voice when your coming to an important part

    make ur presentation something your telling everyone on the spot..do not read off cue cards.
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  • SS4:

    Most important is being able to back up anything you say with hard evidence.

    You should also avoid insulting the person against you – insult the ideas if you can back up your reasons but do not use personal insults
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  • Good_Intentions31:

    get your facts straight and prove them is a good way to debate.dont state opinion or ideas.get facts
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  • Bella:

    Come up with every argument possible against yours, and prepare an intelligent and researched counter-argument for each one. This is how the lawyers do it.

    Always stay calm and speak slowly. Have the facts and numbers the opposing team is going to need, so that if they’re wrong on something or don’t have the stats, you can correct them.

    Be polite. Empathize with the opponent. And then, using what is important to them, turn it around. EG; if they argue about what’s best for the bottom line, then you agree with them, using their own words ("you’re right, in this day and age we need to watch our expenditures. Even my own business has these concerns, because keeping your head above water is very important"), and then point out how YOUR idea is best for the bottom line.

    Good luck!
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  • VietTheShiet:

    dont be a douchebag and interrupt them. if you know they are bsing outta their butts, let them do it completely. if you interrupt them, you will save them from looking like an ass
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  • Miguel T:

    stay calm
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  • Sarah:

    Bella’s is the best answer so far-

    here is the outline i use

    tell them what you are going to tell them

    tell them
    a) what you have to offer (supported by facts)
    b) why you are better- ex pay for quality and this lasts longer (supported by facts- statistics show…) Do this without trashing opponents though

    tell them what you told them
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  • Sustagurl2:

    1. Be prepared
    2. Attack the topic, not the person
    3. Speak loudly & clearly
    4. Have hard-core evidence to support your fact(s)
    5. If you’re using BIG words, know how to use them in a sentence
    6. Neva let them see you sweat
    7. Eye contact is vital
    8. Wait your turn
    9. Be confident
    10. think of yourself as an Attorney

    Good Luck.
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